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charity
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Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!)[pP]>lacrimosa skins for winamp | | Posted on Monday, December 27, 2004 - 8:42 pm: |
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I'm
29, and have sever cases of BPD, PTSD, MAJOR DEPRESSION, SELF INJURY,
ANXIETY. I'm on the third stage of filing for disability, 'the
hearing'. I've been denied twice, letters saying I'm competent and able
to deal with ordinary stresses of everyday life. Unfortunately, the
truth is the exact opposite. Everyday stresses consume me. For the past
10 years, I was in a relationship where disability wasn't necessary, I
was the quote "housewife". But now that the relationship is over and I
have to figure out how to take care of myself...I'm lost. With each
denial I begin to feel invalidated. I've been in therapy for 12 years,
scarring myself for 16 and now, I'm scared to death that I'll be denied
in the hearing. I'm petrified of the hearing process. I'm feeling
hopeless and don't know how to handle this situation. Oh yeah, this is
the first and now I find out will be my last opportunity to file. I'm
not all together sure why, but it's just what I was told. I'm going to
go through with it, can't stop now, but I don't know how to handle
being in front of a judge, with all of my limbs and no physical
problems...and still get my desperation across to them. I know I will
get better, but not in 1 year. Any advice to add? |
   
Paul McChesney (Admin)
Board Administrator Username: Admin
Post Number: 960 Registered: 5-2004
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!)[pP]>lacrimosa skins for winamp | | Posted on Friday, December 31, 2004 - 9:16 am: |
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Yes.
Get a lawyer. He can get a copy of the file, make sure that strong
statements are in there from the treating doctors that answer all the
questions the Administration might have, and he can try to get
statements to explain away any bad reports. You have tried twice on
your own, and not succeeded. You need help. Take care and good luck. |
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